It’s important to be clear about what you are seeking in a mentor. I have established some suggestions for your process as well as clarified my own role if you decide you want to apply to my signature program where I serve in the role as mentor.
FIRST - Establish why you are seeking a mentor.
TWO - Establish what you want to get out of the mentorship/mentoring experience.
For me personally, I seek two specific things in my mentors:
- A mentor who sees clearly - whose discernment I trust
- A mentor who will speak the truth to me about my journey, my stuff, regardless of how it makes me feel
HOW CAN YOU TRUST HER DISCERNMENT
These are questions to ask yourself
- Does this person see your highest self?
- How do you feel in your body when you connect/interact?
- Does her energy and do her words resonate strongly?
- Do you feel more clear after speaking with her?
- Does she help you come back to what you know is true?
- Does she help you remember your own power?
- Does she foster your own independence, sovereignty and growth?
DOES SHE SPEAK CLEARLY AND HONESTLY TO YOU
I am a mentor to many powerful women
My commitment to any woman I take on in a mentoring capacity is this:
- I will seek to be a clear mirror for you.
- In doing so, I promise to always speak the truth to you.
- That means, I am not here to caretake your emotions.
- Does that mean I do not care about your feelings?
No, that is not what that means.
- I am here to hold space for your most brilliant, embodied and powerful self
- I am here to see you Shine.
- I am here to support your expansion.
- Nothing more, nothing less.
As a result, I am here to help you see clearly which means teaching and working with you so you can:
- Perceive on the level of the soul so that you can:
- Do the work your soul came here to do (on a personal, healing level)
- Embody your Soul Purpose in this lifetime
- Identify the spiritual gifts that already exist within your soul
- Work with you to identify your fears and resistance to stepping into your gifts and embodying your Soul Purpose
- Walk with you as you release those fears and resistance
As a result, my job is to dispel any delusions, distortions or projections that I see within your life experience.
My intention is to always do this with kindness, love, respect - and clarity
WHAT MY JOB IS
- My job is to walk with you, to hold space for you, to help remind you what it true
- To remain a clear reflection for you
- To support you to see and embody your most powerful self
WHAT MY JOB IS NOT
- My job is not to fix you, to heal you or to help you.
IF THIS APPEALS TO YOU - Appy to the 9-month program where we work directly in a mentoring capacity.